The audience had to reflect and look back when two former Hollywood princesses Suri Cruise and Shiloh Pitt simultaneously announced that they were giving up their relationship with Tom Cruise’s father, Brad Pitt.

Fatherly love is a profound, sacred feeling that follows us throughout our lives. The relationship between parents and 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren is naturally formed through blood. Therefore, emotional attachment is said to be a natural law and has lasting, unchanging love. However, social development also brings with it many heartbreaking cases and makes people have a more realistic view of this so-called sacred, unbreakable feeling.

On their 18th 𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡day, at a milestone marking adulthood, Suri Cruise and Shiloh Jolie-Pitt simultaneously filed a request to completely drop the surname of Tom Cruise’s biological father, Brad Pitt. This is no different from a statement from the father of the two most famous “princesses” in showbiz in the world. It can be said that it is not surprising if Suri – Shiloh falls into a situation of being boycotted by the public, receiving criticism and being associated with phrases such as “disrespectful”, “meaningless and meaningless”. … But contrary to speculation, the wave of support for the decision of these two famous girls is not small. And if we carefully analyze the situation of Suri and Shiloh, we can partly realize that this is not only a decision to cut off father-𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 relationships but also a statement of individualism.

Toxic beliefs of superstar fathers Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt

The starting points of Suri Cruise and Shiloh Jolie-Pitt are very similar. Both are special 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren in the hearts of the two most prestigious superstar couples in the world of entertainment, Tom Cruise – Katie Holmes and Brad Pitt – Angelina Jolie because of the same bloodline. Since they were 𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐧, Suri and Shiloh have been called the most expensive 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren on the planet, with a status no different from A-list stars in the eyes of the public and people in the entertainment industry. The lives of two little princesses turned 180 degrees after their parents’ marriage broke up in a row.

Suri Cruise was abandoned by her biological father who had cherished her for more than a decade, and Tom would rather be estranged from his biological 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 than have to go against the sect’s rules. Shiloh used to have a close relationship with Brad Pitt when her parents openly faced off in a legal battle, but she came to a surprisingly cold decision to give up her father’s last name because of an irreconcilable conflict. It can be said that one of the reasons why the public sided with Suri and Shiloh is because of the bad father image of Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. “They are the best stars in Hollywood, but also the two worst fathers,” an audience frankly commented.

Tom Cruise was heartbroken when he opened up about his uneventful 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥hood in 2006, blaming his father for abandoning his two sisters when they were young. But ironically, it was Tom who cruelly abandoned his biological daughter Suri Cruise to follow the ideal of the “Church” of Scientology.

There is a reality that the audience considers an incomprehensible paradox in the life of this powerful actor. The 62-year-old actor has “snubbed” his biological 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 since she was 6 years old, but openly loves and cherishes his adopted 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren Isabella and Connor and his on-screen daughter Dakota Fanning. Not only Suri, ex-wife Nicole Kidman and close friend David Beckham are also loved ones who were cruelly thrown away by Tom Cruise because of their devotion to the cult.

The father-son relationship between Brad Pitt and Shiloh is somewhat more unpredictable than the case of Tom – Suri. When the whole world is divided between the marriage war between Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, the 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren in the family are also “divided into factions”.

Over the years, Shiloh has always publicly sided with Brad Pitt when the actor was accused of violence, and she was also said to have confronted Pax Thien to protect her father. Of course, Shiloh supports her father but still wants her mother to be happy.

But everything changed completely when Shiloh turned 18 and then announced that she would give up her father’s name, surprising the whole world. Specifically, what is the conflict that caused Brad Pitt and his father’s relationship to take a turn for the worse? This is an issue that the public is still waiting for insiders to personally clarify.

Regardless of the specific reason, the public can see the common point that made Suri and Shiloh decide to cut the only bond connecting their two fathers, which is toxic beliefs. According to a source from Us Weekly in 2018, Tom Cruise actually has the right to see his daughter 10 days a month, but the actor cruelly refused: “Every parent is allowed to see their 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 if they want. He didn’t meet because Suri doesn’t practice Scientology.” When Suri Cruise turns 18, Tom Cruise has the right to stop providing $400,000/year (10.2 billion VND) to his daughter. And without any regret, this male actor actually cut off all 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 support.

One thing that helps Brad Pitt regain some sympathy from the public is his willingness to make amends. The actor quit drinking and smoking after the controversy and always tried to mend his relationship with his 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren. But looking back from the time of the divorce until now, Brad Pitt has always prioritized his own interests instead of thinking about his 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren.

Pax Thien had a tense relationship with his adoptive father Brad Pitt after the fight on the plane, and this adopted son also stopped talking since 2016. Pax Thien publicly criticized Brad Pitt with harsh words on Day 1. Father’s Day 2020 and revealed the lives of the brothers in the family: “Happy Father’s Day. Time and time again, Dad only proves that he is a terrible and despicable father. Dad turns Mom’s life , your brothers will go to hell and the terrible truth will come to light.” In fact, Brad Pitt not only tried to prolong the marriage lawsuit with Angelina Jolie, but also dragged on the property war, and this is said to be a toxic concept that made even Shiloh feel tired to a great extent. time to leave home. Recently, Brad Pitt woke up and gave up, returning peace to his family and himself.

Taking off her princess dress thanks to two celebrity mothers

From before until after the divorce, Angelina Jolie maintained her view of raising Shiloh, which is to respect her opinions and let her pursue what she wants. As the audience knows, from a young age, Shiloh became an inspiration for the LGBT community and was respected by her parents. As a 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥, Shiloh knew what she wanted and wasn’t afraid to break the mold. In a 2008 interview with “media queen” Oprah Winfrey, Shiloh’s personality was clearly revealed through Brad Pitt’s words: “Since she was 2 years old, Shiloh has wanted everyone to call her by her first name. John or Peter. So in the next conversation with my daughter, I said ‘John, do you want orange juice? She immediately said no!'”.

In 2010, Angelina also revealed in Vanity Fair magazine: “She wants to be a boy. I think her choice is quite good. I’m not the type of parent to force my 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren to become who they are.” which they are not. I think that’s bad parenting.” Ignoring princess dresses, as a 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥, Shiloh was always confident in brushing back her short hair and wearing tomboyish outfits on the red carpet with her parents. At the age of 17, she made millions of viewers admire her brilliant beauty when she had long hair and wore flowing dresses alongside her mother. Then just half a year later, Shiloh shaved her head again and returned with a strong style.

Shiloh is an inspiration for individuals who have a strong desire to follow their own ideals

The audience also saw the image of Brangelina’s first biological 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 dressed simply, not at all indulged in luxurious pleasures or expensive outfits and brands. Showing all her colors, Shiloh has inspired many people to live true to themselves and not conform to any standards. From the age of 14, Shiloh Jolie-Pitt was ready to stand on her own two feet without any support from her parents. After Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt divorced, Shiloh almost became an emotional support for her mother, acting as the eldest 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 taking care of her younger siblings.

“Tom doesn’t exist in Suri’s world.” Like Shiloh, Suri stays away from the spotlight and luxury – things that have been familiar since 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥hood, but is somewhat secretive and away from the spotlight compared to her peers.

The current life of Suri Cruise – the princess who once lived in the shadow of the most powerful father in the entertainment industry – has completely changed thanks to the forging hands of her mother Katie Holmes. Even though the financial capabilities of mother and daughter may be greatly affected due to the lack of billions in subsidies from Tom Cruise, Suri has no intention of rekindling the father-daughter relationship.

Suri Cruise has a very independent personality. Interviewed with InStyle in 2022, Katie repeatedly praised Suri, affirming that her daughter has a very strong personality: “I love her very much. My biggest goal is to be able to raise her to be an individual. excel with 100% strength, confidence and ability.” Even though she is a sought-after character like an A-list star, Suri is still not afraid to take part-time jobs to earn her own income, for example by driving a technology car instead of using a private driver.

The little princess Suri Cruise, with her old luxurious outfits, has transformed into a simple young woman, shining with hidden charm and very real beauty.

To help her 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 escape the shadow of the title “Hollywood princess”, Katie gradually isolates her 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 from showbiz temptations, teaches her how to live more emotionally with her family, stay away from social networks and form a good personality. through social activities and acts of kindness towards the homeless. Not only her lifestyle, Suri Cruise also shows her potential from a young age and her strong personality when it comes to studying.

And similar to Angelina Jolie’s point of view, actress Katie Holmes lets her daughter be independent and pursue her dreams: “She will choose an activity and try her best until she is really good at it.” At the age of 18, Suri Cruise received the lead role in the musical called The Addams Family: A New Musical at the private school where she was studying, completely proving that she did not need her parents’ “back” .

Declaration of independence and liberation

At the age of 18, Shiloh made the decision to drop Pitt from her name as a statement affirming her independence and maturity. She absolutely does not need to stand behind the shadow of her powerful father. Suri dropped her Cruise name before her father cut off her benefits as a decisive move. Many viewers believe that this is no different from a statement affirming the high egos of Suri and Shiloh. But looking at the situation when the two girls were treated coldly when their family broke up and how they grew up independently in the arms of progressive-minded star mothers, they decided to cut the ties that tied them together. Paternity is considered reasonable. This is not a rare phenomenon in European and American countries, or even in many Asian countries in recent years.

“Declaring an end to a family member is a strong and distinct phenomenon,” said Karl Andrew Pillemer – professor of human development at Cornell University, USA. This is a completely different concept from family feuds or high conflict situations within the family. Academic researchers and therapists in countries such as Australia and Canada also say they are witnessing a “silent epidemic” of broken families. The phenomenon of adult 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren accepting to be disowned by their parents is increasing day by day, even becoming popular and being publicized on social networking sites.

These cases occur mainly in Western countries with a cultural tendency toward individualism rather than in Asian countries, where family is still considered the most sacred thing, and the love between mother and father is still important. heavily weighted and considered immutable. However, the phenomenon of parents and 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren separating from each other, 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren’s right to cut off contact and rights with their parents can no longer be counted on the fingers of one hand. According to the BBC, Joshua Coleman – psychologist and author of the book “The Face Rule: Why Children Cut Off Relationships and How to Heal Conflicts” said: “Today, there is nothing that can binds 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren to their parents beyond the 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥’s desire to maintain that relationship. Faizah is a typical case cited by the BBC to give its opinion and reasons for this situation. She is British of South Asian descent and has avoided living near her family since 2014. “They don’t respect my boundaries. I just want to be in control of my life and make my own decisions.”

In Asian showbiz, the unfortunate case of the late female Kpop idol Goo Hara is the clearest proof of the necessary and civilized change in the relationship between parents and 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren. Goo Hara passed away in public shock, and then the public witnessed the destruction of her family because of the huge inheritance left by the female idol. The female idol’s biological brother – Goo Ki In – accused their biological mother of abandoning them. “She wants to get half of the inheritance back after my brother passes away.” He also filed a petition for a new law to stop her cause and seek justice for his deceased brother.

The wave of support for Goo Hara and her brother was so great that the Korean National Assembly passed a law named after the late female idol. The Goo Hara Act was officially passed by the Law Review Subcommittee of the Law and Justice Committee of the Korean National Assembly. Here, the law stipulates that a person’s serious violation of the obligation to support minor 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren or serious criminal acts, unfair treatment of his/her spouse or direct descendants is grounds for citation. to lose the right to inheritance. And Goo Hara’s mother was ᵴtriƥped of her inheritance rights for not being able to fulfill her parenting duties.

At the age of 18, Shiloh and Suri were able to develop independently based on the guidance of their two mothers. The families of two former Hollywood princesses are now defined by two key factors: themselves and their mother’s love. In fact, not only Shiloh, her siblings Maddox, Pax Thien and Zahara are also not bound by any custody agreement. Therefore, they choose to separate from the custody battle between their parents and declare their right to decide their own lives. This is entirely their way of protecting their mental health and future from toxic emotional factors in broken family relationships.

Most importantly, the public now often sees Suri and Shiloh with bright, happy images and warm smiles with their family. Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise move on with new relationships after letting go of invisible intense emotional battles in the past. Angelina Jolie and Katies Holmes have completely built a solid foundation for the development of themselves and their 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥ren. No matter whose side you stand on in the story of these two star families, this is the happiest and healthiest ending.